Two weeks ago, Jess and I noticed a flyer at the gym. Luckily, it was half in Thai and half in English. “Cowboy Party. Food and refreshments. 500 baht -non member. Member-Free”. The main manager lady at the desk said “Cowboy Party! You come?” I immediately looked at Jess with a huge smile, “Heck yes we are!”. If I love anything, its American themed parties and country music. When we left that day, they had us sign a sheet as our RSVP.
After waiting in great anticipation for two whole weeks, Jess and I were a little weary about what to expect. Yes the party was at the beautiful hotel but we didn’t want to get discouraged so we kept our expectations low. “Dude, what if there’s no food? What if there’s no drinks?? Okay, we’ll just stay for a few minutes and scope it out.” As soon as we walked into the underground bar where the party was being held, we were greeted by two employees in full cowboy outfits, plaid shirt, boots, hat, and bandana, and they were sure excited we arrived. Luckily my mom sent me a plaid shirt for my birthday as I left all my country gear back home, I sure didn’t think I’d need it here. They had us sign in and snapped a picture of Jess and I under the greeting message. We then went into the big bar area and were pleasantly surprised.. scratch that, we were EXSTATIC! We saw tables and tables and tasty food, waiters walking around with drinks, and maybe about two dozen other members (don’t even ask, yes we were the only foreigners of the entire evening). All of the employees that work at the gym were dressed up and very happy to greet us (there are only six guys that work at the gym and two of them speak semi-English so we have gotten to know one another). Jess and I plopped ourselves on the couch and grabbed a glass of wine. We were immediately approached and encouraged to sign up for a karaoke song.. (For my UCSB friends.. karaoke here is very different than a night at OTT. For my non UCSB friends, OTT is a popular place for 21 and up students to go on a Wednesday night, it gets extremely packed with people and karaoke goes on until closing. However here, Thai people don’t karaoke as an activity to do with friends after a few drinks, they often wake up in the morning, turn on their TV, grab their microphone and sing some tunes to start off their day. They absolutely love to sing and will do so in front of an audience stone cold sober, nothing like OTT. I don’t think I’ll ever enjoy karaoke the way Thai people do.) My first reaction was “no way am I doing karaoke” but with Jess’ encouragement, I agreed to perform a late night song. We decided on “Don’t Stop Believin” by Journey, probably America’s most well known and over played karaoke song but we both love it and it’s generally a crowd pleaser. After that, we grabbed a plate or two of food.. honey baked ham, teriyaki chicken, bread rolls, mini pizzas, and a huge variety of different cakes.. carrot cake was the only one I could distinguish but I had others that were even more amazing.. some 4 layer cake was my favorite (I don’t know what the four layers were, but it was amazing so I didn’t want to ask and have it ruined for me). Our drink choices included white and red wine, beer, water, and coca cola. With our time limit in mind, we kept the refreshments coming and enjoyed the party. Party Time, Thai Style: I’ve come to realize that Thai parties are more like shows. Of course there were games. Hula hooping competitions, pop the balloon between your legs competitions, a dance performance of a popular Korean pop song "Sorry Sorry" by our the gym staff, and song after song of karaoke. It was mostly older women performing and a few younger ones singing to Thai songs, and a few people busting moves on the dance floor. One young woman sang “I Will Survive” and two older women ran to Jess and I, grabbed our hands and said “After eating, need to exercise” and insisted we dance with them. During another song, another young women ran over to us insisted we dance because “this song is good luck and make you rich if you dance”. Okay I need a little money, I’ll dance.
Word came that they didn’t have “Don’t Stop Believing” in the system.. Shoot. We browsed the karaoke program and I was definitely looking for some Taylor Swift but decided on “Umbrella” by Rihanna, their English selection wasn’t as large as we were lead to believe. At 9pm it was our stage time. We hit most of our notes but it didn’t matter, the crowd loved us and there even numerous people dancing on the dance floor and singing along. In my experience, there are many Thai people who know popular American songs and can even sing along but can’t speak a drop of the English language. Jess and I were given roses by a couple people during our karaoke session, which is often done if someone likes you or your performance. I think everyone there was excited that we were participating in the events and having a good time. We topped off the party with two more performances, Britney’s “Opps I did it again” and Michael Jackson’s “Beat It”. Funny, I didn’t hear a single country song the entire night.
Winner Winner!: At the end of the party, they thanked the members for attending by giving away numerous prizes.. bottles of wine and other alcohol and free gym memberships. It looked to me they were randomly selecting winners from the slips of paper with the names of people who had attended. Just before the last prize was called, I gave Jess a look and said “I’d love to win right now!” Just then, the people calling the names looked over at us and excitedly yelled into the microphone “Chelsea FreemAn!” I couldn’t believe it, I love winning prizes! I ran up to claim my prize and received numerous congratulatory handshakes in between my jumping and spouts of happy squeals. I’m convinced they rigged it, but I’m fine with that. It ends up I won a voucher for a one night stay and breakfast at the hotel! Since I am neighbors with the hotel, I don’t exactly need it so I may see if I can use it at another location, like in Bali!
| Party Crew before the after party |
| Imagine these guys dancing like the video below |

























